Private Counselling and Mediation Children's Contact Service (CCS)
About

There are several Children's Contact Centres in the suburbs of Adelaide and they provide excellent supervised time with parents where there is potential concern about conflict or safety. However, these centres often have long waiting periods due to high demand, limited hours and fixed locations.
When a parent is seeking to re-establish relationships with their children delays can have serious long term consequences both legally and developmentally.
Furthermore, and very sadly, some of our clients have had unfortunate experiences with Children's Contact Centres being father and/or mother unfriendly.
Private Counselling and Mediation offers a mobile, child focused, professional and private Children’s Contact Service that assists children in the northern suburbs of Adelaide and the Barossa to maintain their relationship with a parent with whom they do not live, especially where there is potential concern about conflict or safety in matters before the Family Court of Australia or the Federal Circuit Court of Australia.
Above all at Private Counselling and Mediation's Children's Contact Service our central aim is to be both father and mother friendly, whilst always emphasizing the best interests of the children.
When a parent is seeking to re-establish relationships with their children delays can have serious long term consequences both legally and developmentally.
Furthermore, and very sadly, some of our clients have had unfortunate experiences with Children's Contact Centres being father and/or mother unfriendly.
Private Counselling and Mediation offers a mobile, child focused, professional and private Children’s Contact Service that assists children in the northern suburbs of Adelaide and the Barossa to maintain their relationship with a parent with whom they do not live, especially where there is potential concern about conflict or safety in matters before the Family Court of Australia or the Federal Circuit Court of Australia.
Above all at Private Counselling and Mediation's Children's Contact Service our central aim is to be both father and mother friendly, whilst always emphasizing the best interests of the children.
An important message to family lawyers
Private Counselling and Mediation's Children's Contact service now has vacancies for new clients.
Private Counselling and Mediation's Children's Contact Service has four advantages over more traditional services of this kind:
We also mention we provide mediation and counselling services.
Should you require any further information please do not hesitate to contact us by telephoning (08) 8524 4302 or emailing [email protected]
Private Counselling and Mediation's Children's Contact Service has four advantages over more traditional services of this kind:
- We can respond rapidly. Subject to client availability we typically get contact up and running within one week.
- We are very flexible. The timing and location for contact is left up to the clients. We are available any time of the day, including weekends and public holidays. A location that suits parent and child enables a better interaction and hence a more favourable outcome. We have had experience at many locations, including “Little Rockets” at Munno Para, the Allenby Gardens Reserve, Nuriootpa Linear Park, “The Little Rocking Horse” Lobethal, “Bounce” Greenacres and Woodville Bowl.
- We are more than happy to provide an observational report which we provide to both parents and their lawyers. Feedback from clients suggests that many children’s contact services have a certain agenda as regards these reports. We tend to place a greater emphasis on the positive interactions between parent and child.
- My partner and I jointly supervise all contacts. We have been teachers and social workers working with children for many years.
We also mention we provide mediation and counselling services.
Should you require any further information please do not hesitate to contact us by telephoning (08) 8524 4302 or emailing [email protected]
What follows are some disturbing findings by Bettina Arndt in an article she wrote of 25/11/21 that appears on You Tube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pTDahE-ixsw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pTDahE-ixsw
What is also disturbing is that the lack of funding for not for profit Children's Contact Centres leaves many Australian parents
waiting for months to see their children on supervised visits, as discussed by Nino Bucci ABC, 12/04/21
In some parts of the country, it can take up to a year to find a place for a weekly supervised meeting.
‘It’s difficult to imagine the pain’: the tragic consequences of Australia’s broken family law system
The pandemic has squeezed an already choking system even tighter, with supervised visits cancelled entirely for months-long stretches in some regions.
Some parents are waiting a year to see their children because of a chronic lack of publicly funded places for supervised visits.
It can take years in court to decide on orders for non-custodial parents to have supervised visits with their children, but Guardian Australia has been told that even after an order is granted, children can face another problem: in some parts of the country, it can take a year to find a place for a weekly two-hour visit.
That means court orders can’t be acted on, other orders are delayed and tense situations become tenser.
Jacoba Brasch: ‘Some people can afford to pay for private supervisors – good luck to them, that’s terrific – but not everybody can.’ Tyler Alberti/Law Council of Australia
“You’ve got a judge who wants to make a supervised order but the children aren’t going to see the parent for three months, six months, because there’s no vacancies,” Dr Jacoba Brasch QC, the president of the Law Council of Australia and an experienced family law barrister, tells Guardian Australia.
“Mum or dad was in their lives usually and suddenly is out, and ... the children can never get that three months back, or six months back, that they missed out on.”
The system effectively creates two tiers of parents, Brasch says: those who can afford to pay for visits with their children and can see them straight away, and those who can’t.
“Some people can afford to pay for private supervisors – good luck to them, that’s terrific – but not everybody can. The wait for the lesser-costing or the publicly resourced ones can be horrendous.”
Unregulated private operators are filling the void left by a lack of public services. Government-regulated providers have grave reservations about how these private operators function.
“You wonder if they’re even appointing people with working with children checks,” says Sharon Grocott, the head of research at the publicly funded provider Interrelate. “With [children’s contact services], because there’s no accreditation system, you don’t know what they’re doing.”
In Western Australia, which operates a different family court model to the rest of Australia, the waiting list for a publicly funded access visit has reached a year in some places, says Relationships Australia WA’s executive director, Michael Sheehan.
Private operators in the state come and go, Sheehan says. It is clear there is demand for their services, but some fold after being subject to repeated complaints, struggling to make a profit, or both.
The hunt for profit means operators frequently host supervised visits in public spaces, which can create safety issues, Sheehan says, and are less likely to spend money training staff.
“These private services, they don’t have that infrastructure, so often the supervision is in a park, or something like that, where there’s less control around contact. The other issue is they don’t have funding and they have to pay staff, and they’re trying to make a profit.
“All this [is] set up around protecting children, and these private services just can’t do that.”
To try to help more families, Interrelate has created a user-pays program in Taree, on the mid-north coast of New South Wales, where demand for its services is most acute.
Children and adults fish on the Manning River in Taree. Some parents from the region are driving two hours south to Newcastle to access free services.
But it’s not cheap: a two-hour supervised visit costs between $155 and $522, depending on the day and time it’s scheduled.
It is common, Grocott says, for parents to drive two hours south to Newcastle to access free services. She has heard of parents travelling even further for a visit.
They cannot afford to pay, so will try to get anywhere that provides a publicly funded position. “When you speak to parents, you’re brought to tears yourself hearing the journey they’ve been through,” Grocott says.
“The system is so broken and it’s just the lack of funding, the supports for these families, they need the wraparound.
“A lot of these families are very vulnerable, they’re low income, they might not have the capacity to pay ... most of them earn under $50,000 a year.”
Interrelate has presented a paper to the federal government flagging funding levels, which showed that an indexation freeze in the sector had created a significant cut in service delivery. Grocott says Interrelate has been forced to cut service hours 26% since 2012.
The pause in funding came at the same time as award rates increased, meaning the rate paid to casuals increased 143% on weekends.
Last March Interrelate gave evidence to a Senate committee that about 30 families were waiting for an appointment at each of its six centres. The situation is even worse now.
“Not having government funding to match that has meant that ... families miss out,” Grocott says. “Waiting lists blow out, because the system is overstretched.
“I know I’ve personally taken calls at times from fathers, and also mothers, really distressed. And there’s nothing we can do. We’ve trimmed everything we can over the last few years ... there’s nothing left.”
The chief executive of Relationships Australia NSW, Elisabeth Shaw, says underfunding supervision services is dangerous as it can precipitate violence in fathers.
“It’s a really critical element in a family safety approach, because we know one of the triggers around family violence is an angry father who is cut off from their children,” she says. “As soon as you have a situation where that little bit of access is not available, that’s a trigger point.”
The pandemic has squeezed an already choking system even tighter. It has seen supervised visits cancelled entirely for months-long stretches in some regions, adding to the backlog.
It has meant other visits had to be cancelled at short notice because the child or parent had mild flu-like symptoms, like a runny nose.
Another influential factor is starting to become apparent: the impact of the pandemic on relationships, which fractured as people were forced to work and school from home.
The fallout is expected to increase the punishing workload on family courts and associated support services.
“There are so many different issues at play because of the Covid-19 pandemic,” says Nick Tebbey, Relationships Australia’s national executive officer.
“All of these things are creating a situation where we just can’t predict what could happen in the next 12 months, let alone five years.”
waiting for months to see their children on supervised visits, as discussed by Nino Bucci ABC, 12/04/21
In some parts of the country, it can take up to a year to find a place for a weekly supervised meeting.
‘It’s difficult to imagine the pain’: the tragic consequences of Australia’s broken family law system
The pandemic has squeezed an already choking system even tighter, with supervised visits cancelled entirely for months-long stretches in some regions.
Some parents are waiting a year to see their children because of a chronic lack of publicly funded places for supervised visits.
It can take years in court to decide on orders for non-custodial parents to have supervised visits with their children, but Guardian Australia has been told that even after an order is granted, children can face another problem: in some parts of the country, it can take a year to find a place for a weekly two-hour visit.
That means court orders can’t be acted on, other orders are delayed and tense situations become tenser.
Jacoba Brasch: ‘Some people can afford to pay for private supervisors – good luck to them, that’s terrific – but not everybody can.’ Tyler Alberti/Law Council of Australia
“You’ve got a judge who wants to make a supervised order but the children aren’t going to see the parent for three months, six months, because there’s no vacancies,” Dr Jacoba Brasch QC, the president of the Law Council of Australia and an experienced family law barrister, tells Guardian Australia.
“Mum or dad was in their lives usually and suddenly is out, and ... the children can never get that three months back, or six months back, that they missed out on.”
The system effectively creates two tiers of parents, Brasch says: those who can afford to pay for visits with their children and can see them straight away, and those who can’t.
“Some people can afford to pay for private supervisors – good luck to them, that’s terrific – but not everybody can. The wait for the lesser-costing or the publicly resourced ones can be horrendous.”
Unregulated private operators are filling the void left by a lack of public services. Government-regulated providers have grave reservations about how these private operators function.
“You wonder if they’re even appointing people with working with children checks,” says Sharon Grocott, the head of research at the publicly funded provider Interrelate. “With [children’s contact services], because there’s no accreditation system, you don’t know what they’re doing.”
In Western Australia, which operates a different family court model to the rest of Australia, the waiting list for a publicly funded access visit has reached a year in some places, says Relationships Australia WA’s executive director, Michael Sheehan.
Private operators in the state come and go, Sheehan says. It is clear there is demand for their services, but some fold after being subject to repeated complaints, struggling to make a profit, or both.
The hunt for profit means operators frequently host supervised visits in public spaces, which can create safety issues, Sheehan says, and are less likely to spend money training staff.
“These private services, they don’t have that infrastructure, so often the supervision is in a park, or something like that, where there’s less control around contact. The other issue is they don’t have funding and they have to pay staff, and they’re trying to make a profit.
“All this [is] set up around protecting children, and these private services just can’t do that.”
To try to help more families, Interrelate has created a user-pays program in Taree, on the mid-north coast of New South Wales, where demand for its services is most acute.
Children and adults fish on the Manning River in Taree. Some parents from the region are driving two hours south to Newcastle to access free services.
But it’s not cheap: a two-hour supervised visit costs between $155 and $522, depending on the day and time it’s scheduled.
It is common, Grocott says, for parents to drive two hours south to Newcastle to access free services. She has heard of parents travelling even further for a visit.
They cannot afford to pay, so will try to get anywhere that provides a publicly funded position. “When you speak to parents, you’re brought to tears yourself hearing the journey they’ve been through,” Grocott says.
“The system is so broken and it’s just the lack of funding, the supports for these families, they need the wraparound.
“A lot of these families are very vulnerable, they’re low income, they might not have the capacity to pay ... most of them earn under $50,000 a year.”
Interrelate has presented a paper to the federal government flagging funding levels, which showed that an indexation freeze in the sector had created a significant cut in service delivery. Grocott says Interrelate has been forced to cut service hours 26% since 2012.
The pause in funding came at the same time as award rates increased, meaning the rate paid to casuals increased 143% on weekends.
Last March Interrelate gave evidence to a Senate committee that about 30 families were waiting for an appointment at each of its six centres. The situation is even worse now.
“Not having government funding to match that has meant that ... families miss out,” Grocott says. “Waiting lists blow out, because the system is overstretched.
“I know I’ve personally taken calls at times from fathers, and also mothers, really distressed. And there’s nothing we can do. We’ve trimmed everything we can over the last few years ... there’s nothing left.”
The chief executive of Relationships Australia NSW, Elisabeth Shaw, says underfunding supervision services is dangerous as it can precipitate violence in fathers.
“It’s a really critical element in a family safety approach, because we know one of the triggers around family violence is an angry father who is cut off from their children,” she says. “As soon as you have a situation where that little bit of access is not available, that’s a trigger point.”
The pandemic has squeezed an already choking system even tighter. It has seen supervised visits cancelled entirely for months-long stretches in some regions, adding to the backlog.
It has meant other visits had to be cancelled at short notice because the child or parent had mild flu-like symptoms, like a runny nose.
Another influential factor is starting to become apparent: the impact of the pandemic on relationships, which fractured as people were forced to work and school from home.
The fallout is expected to increase the punishing workload on family courts and associated support services.
“There are so many different issues at play because of the Covid-19 pandemic,” says Nick Tebbey, Relationships Australia’s national executive officer.
“All of these things are creating a situation where we just can’t predict what could happen in the next 12 months, let alone five years.”
Basic Process
As with all services provided by Private Counselling and Mediation the emphasis is on simplicity.
Intake: Each parent attends a separate Intake Interview. This usually is held over the telephone, but can be face to face should the client prefer.
Supervised contact: Private CCS will then provide Children's Contact Services as Court Ordered.
If clients request observational notes they will be provided to both parties and their legal representatives after every Service.
Report: At the conclusion of 5-8 sessions a full report is provided.
Intake: Each parent attends a separate Intake Interview. This usually is held over the telephone, but can be face to face should the client prefer.
Supervised contact: Private CCS will then provide Children's Contact Services as Court Ordered.
If clients request observational notes they will be provided to both parties and their legal representatives after every Service.
Report: At the conclusion of 5-8 sessions a full report is provided.
Contact
Postal address: Private Counselling and Mediation's Children's Contact Services, PO Box 263, Lyndoch, South Australia 5351
Telephone (08) 8524 4302
Email: [email protected]
Telephone (08) 8524 4302
Email: [email protected]